Learning Spanish Changes Everything
Don't be me. I had every opportunity to start learning Spanish before moving to Mexico. I had the time, access to a great Spanish school, and I lived in a predominantly Mexican neighborhood in Oakland where I could have practiced every single day. But somehow, I kept postponing it. There was always a reason to wait... until there wasn't. Looking back, I wish I had arrived here with even a basic foundation. So if you're planning to move to Mexico, consider this my biggest lesson learned: start learning before you pack your bags.
As soon as we arrived in Puerto Vallarta, I enrolled in Spanish classes twice a week with the fabulous KayLista Spanish Studio, who I highly recommend. Unfortunately, the stress of moving, settling into a new country, and dealing with all the emotions that come with such a big life change made it difficult for me to focus. I had to pause my lessons after just a couple of months. I learned enough to get by in simple situations, but when you're actually living here, "getting by" isn't the same as feeling connected.
Yes, you can survive without Spanish in many parts of Puerto Vallarta. Many people speak English, especially in tourist areas, and even our local tienda has staff who can help in English. But surviving isn't the same as belonging. The real magic happens when you make the effort to learn the language, understand the culture, appreciate the customs, and become part of everyday conversations... even if those conversations are just neighborhood gossip. Don't underestimate this because "everyone speaks English." First, they don't. Second, speaking Spanish isn't just about communication. It's one of the greatest signs of respect you can show to the country you've chosen to call home.
